The Golden rules for being a long-term partner for a millionaire
THE #1 rule for long-term girlfriends of millionaires is this: remember your place at all times. It’s important to never start assuming that you are set for life. A wealthy man’s life is busy, full of commitments and responsibilities that were well established when you came along. Your task is to be flexible and available to fit into his schedule when the opportunity arises, and to be understanding when he has to cancel last minute. In the beginning you are not necessarily your millionaire date’s first priority, even though at times he may want you to be right from the get go.
A thought that will keep you grounded is that you aren’t doing anyone a favour by being keeping your schedule free for him. You’re on the right track with him, and if you want that to last, you’ll follow these golden rules.
BE YOUR MILLIONAIRE’S LIGHT RELIEF
Make it your mission to be your millionaire’s light relief – a glimmer of sunshine on his most intense working days and a sparkle in the evening after a long week of meetings and mayhem.
Being able to convince him to shake off the stresses of the work day and take his mind off board meetings and business concerns is a true talent – and it will keep him sticking around. Take note of what makes him giggle, what makes him smile and what makes him relax – work out how you can enhance them.
Does he like to go for a run or play tennis to work out his frustrations? Suggest a game. Would he prefer to see some live jazz in a secluded little bar? Look up what’s on. Does he want to have oysters and champagne with a beautiful young woman to remind himself why he works so hard? Accept the invitation.
By doing so, you’ll be a permanent fixture on his mind as he’ll be coming back for more, and more, and more.
KEEP THE MAINTENANCE UP
The version of yourself you present to your wealthy date on first meeting should be the very best, most perfect version. Freshly washed and styled hair, nails must be manicured and your outfit planned well in advance – ironed or steamed with no loose threads and brushed down for lint. Every single detail should be considered.
Now that you’ve set the standard, you should never dip below it – in fact, this should only improve. Your millionaire date may start to invest in your appearance. If he likes a golden tan, you may find yourself with an appointment to a solarium or invited to spend the day sunning yourself by a pool while he is at work. If he wants you to tone up, a membership to a luxury fitness club might be gifted to you. Does he prefer your hair lighter, darker, shorter, longer? Enjoy your pampering sessions with the most talented hairdressers.
Above all, maintain your standards – and always be prepared in case your millionaire guy calls you at late notice. You want to be ready and perfect for him every single time. He will notice and appreciate the effort you’re taking to be ready and fabulous just for him.
AMBITION AND DRIVE IS SEXY
The majority of millionaires are attracted to women who have some drive and determination. Not to the point where it gets in the way of your attention and affection for him, but you should have some life goals you want to achieve. After all, when he maybe starts to help you out in various ways, he’ll be comforted knowing that some of it will contribute to your improvement and growth.
Maybe you want to start a business…or you want to pay your college tuition and finish your degree so you can sink your teeth into a career without being bogged down by serious student debt. Your wealthy guy will want to hear about your dreams and could be a significant contributor to making them a reality.
Every women has their own reasons for dating with a millionaire so you’ll already know what your particular motivation is. When the time is right, share your hopes and dreams with your wealthy partner and allow him to guide and support you through it - if he wants to.
EDUCATE YOURSELF ON ELEGANCE
Being the perfect woman is all about adapting and learning to deal with certain situations that might be unfamiliar to you. A great example of this is a millionaire who has a penchant for fine dining, do your research into the newest and hottest places – check the menus and google any menu terms that are unfamiliar to you. You don’t want to be embarrassed by not understanding a menu, or worse – ordering something you can’t eat.
A few YouTube videos on dining etiquette might open your eyes to a few simple rules that should always be followed at a dinner table in terms of how to hold and rest your cutlery, how to correctly hold your wine glass, how to excuse yourself from the table politely. All of these will impress your millionaire date and make you a more elegant and alluring companion.